It's A Single Mom Thing
Welcome to āIt's A Single Mom Thing,ā the show for single moms by single moms, hosted by Sherry Chandler.
Being a solo momma and present parent is hard work, and losing focus is easy when you forget your faith. The good news is you are not alone. You were singled out this season, and together, we can work on whatās not working for youāfinding Christ in the crisis! Whether youāre tuning in early in the morning or late at night, Iām here for you, momma.
This podcast is your go-to space for navigating life as a single mom with faith, fun, and a fresh perspective. We'll cover everything from mastering a single-mom success mindset and budgeting like a boss to prioritizing self-care and raising resilient kids. Weāll share time management hacks, parenting perspectives, co-parenting challenges, and how to find joy and laugh again. Together, weāll move from surviving to thriving in every season of single motherhood.
Be encouraged. Get inspired. You can do this, momma.
Each Monday, join me for practical advice, relatable stories, and uplifting conversations as we walk this journey from solo momma to solo momma. I promise not to take too much of your time, and Iām so grateful youāre spending it with me.
It may be a single mom thing, but it doesnāt have to be the "single thing" that stops you!
It's A Single Mom Thing
No Ring, No Mistletoe: A Holiday Devotional Thought for Single Moms
š Podcast Episode: "No Ring, No Mistletoe: A Holiday Devotional Thought for Single Moms"
The holidays can feel like a season of pressureāromantic movies, social media posts, and endless holiday events can make you feel like you need someone special under the mistletoe. But hereās the truth, single mama: You are already loved beyond measure.
In this short but powerful devotional thought, Sherry keeps it real about navigating dating during the holiday season. From setting healthy boundaries and dodging mistletoe mishaps to staying focused on your worth in Christ, this episode is your reminder that your value isnāt tied to a relationship statusāitās anchored in Jesus.
āØ In this episode, youāll learn how to:
š Stay confident and intentional while dating (or not)
š Avoid the holiday āpressure cookerā of romance
š Remember that the greatest love story of all is already yours
So grab your cocoa, adjust your crown, and letās get real about embracing your seasonāno ring or mistletoe required.
š§ Listen now and be encouraged!
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It's a Single Mom Thing, Not the Single Thing That Stops You!
Welcome to it's a Single Mom Thing, the show for single moms by single moms. This is Sherri, your host, and I am happy you are here today. Remember it's a single mom thing and not the single thing that stops you.
Speaker 2:Well, hey, hey, hey, my single peeps, and welcome back to another episode of it's a Single Mom Thing, where I like to keep it real, raw and refreshingly honest. I'm your host, sherri, and today we are diving into something very timely, albeit brief, devotional thought on dating during the holidays. Oh yes, we're talking about how to keep your boundaries in check and avoid those mistletoe mishaps. You know the ones that can turn your holiday cheer into some holiday chaos, whether you're newly single or have been rocking the solo mom life for years. This season can come with its own romantic pressure. But let me tell you, girl, just because it's a spirit-filled season doesn't mean you have to accept every you-up text wrapped in some holiday charm. So if you're ready for some bold truth, practical tips and maybe a little tough love, grab that peppermint mocha and let's get into it.
Speaker 2:The Holiday Dating Pressure Cooker All right, let's talk about the pressure cooker that is dating during the holidays Social media, hallmark movies and even well-meaning friends and families. Well, they will have you thinking that you need a special someone by your side Christmas Eve, or that you've somehow failed the holiday happiness checklist. Well, here's a spoiler alert you haven't, and they are so wrong. You see, the world will try to sell you on the idea that the holidays are incomplete without mistletoe moments and matching holiday PJs. But listen up. You don't need a ring under that tree or someone to kiss at midnight on New Year's Eve to have a meaningful holiday season, or, as I like to call it, the holy day seasons. You see, the only relationship status that matters is this one Are you honoring yourself this holiday season? If the answer is yes, then you are already winning Dating with intention, not just holiday distraction. Now, I'm not saying you should avoid dating altogether. If you're ready and want to date, girl, go for it, but do it with intention, not out of holiday loneliness or because everyone around you seems to be coupled up. I get it, the holidays, they can be lonely, but it's not a time for a hookup while your kiddos are away. Here's how to date with intention during the holiday season.
Speaker 2:Number one set clear expectations. Are you dating for fun or something serious? You need to get real with yourself, girl. Make sure you're clear on what you want before stepping under any mistletoe. You want no mixed signals here. Number two be honest about your holiday reality. You've got kids, schedules and traditions to juggle. Be upfront about your availability and your priorities. If someone can't respect that, they can take their holiday spirit elsewhere, because you know, girl, if he can't respect that, he ain't going to respect the. You know that you picking up what I'm laying down under the Christmas tree here. Number two keep the kids out of it for now. Well, the holidays, you know they can feel magical and miraculous, but that does not mean you need to introduce someone new to your kids unless it's serious. Protect your family's peace and emotional space first. You want your kids to have silent nights this holiday season.
Speaker 2:Boundaries, boundaries and boundaries. All right, sis, let's talk. You guessed it. Boundaries Because without them. You guessed it. Boundaries Because without them, holiday dating can go from holly jolly to hot mess express real fast. Here's how to keep the boundaries bright and clear.
Speaker 2:Number one no last minute plans. If he's only texting you after 9 pm with you up, want to hang out. You already know what's up. Boundaries mean respecting your time and your worth because you are a woman of worth. Don't forget that If he can't plan ahead, he can stay home with some eggnog.
Speaker 2:Two watch out for holiday love bombing. Sometimes people turn up the charm during the holidays Gifts, grand gestures. You know the whole shebang. Don't mistake that for real connection, because my guess is it's just a shebang. If it feels too much too fast, you need to trust the nut in your gut, girl.
Speaker 2:Number three stay true to your standards. You don't have to settle just because it's the season of giving. Remember we have discussed in an earlier podcast that the only thing that settles is dust, not you. Don't lower your standards for the sake of holiday romance. I mean, you know at least Santa checks his list twice, shouldn't you? Avoiding mistletoe mishaps We've all heard the phrase. Don't let the holiday spirit fool you. Just because it's a festive time doesn't mean you should throw caution and common sense out the window. Here's how to avoid those classic holiday dating mishaps Mistake-free holiday dating tips.
Speaker 2:Number one don't make it official just for the holidays. Avoid rushing into a relationship because of the holiday feelings. It feels good, january will come and you don't want a situationship you regret. Number two no social media show-offs, unless it's serious and long-term. Skip the couple's holidays photos on the gram. Protect your heavenly peace and keep your private life private. Number three skip the family introductions.
Speaker 2:The holidays, yeah. They can make you feel like it's time for a big picture public declaration. But unless you're confident in the relationship, hold off on those family meet and greets, the faith-filled reality, check the relationship that matters most. And here's the truth, friend you already have the most important relationship in your life your relationship with Jesus. He knows your heart, girl, your desires and your future. You don't need a holiday romance to feel whole, loved or even seen. You are already his beloved.
Speaker 2:So this holiday season, focus on honoring your values and loving yourself and trusting that the right person, if it's God's plan, will come at the right time and if not, you're still a queen. No ring or mistletoe required. All right, ladies, as I close, that's a wrap on no Ring, no Mistletoe. So remember you're worthy, valuable and already loved beyond measure. Set your standards high, keep your boundaries firm and know that you don't need a mistletoe magic to have a meaningful holiday season. It's a new year and it's time for a new you. If you're in the Tampa Bay area, let's thrive together in 25 by joining it's a Single Mom Thing community. We've got incredible classes designed just for you. Check out what's coming up at shepherdsvillagecom forward slash classes. Remember, being a single mom is a thing, but it's never the thing that defines or stops you. Oh and hey, just because this episode is ending doesn't mean we're gone. If you are ever in need of prayer or a listening ear, my friends are here for you. Call us anytime, 24-7, even on New Year's night at 855-822-PRAY.
Speaker 1:You are never alone. Have a wonderful week and remember it's a single, single mom thing and not the single thing that stops you. Thanks for listening to it's a Single Mom Thing. I hope you enjoyed our time together. If you have more questions on how to have a relationship with Jesus or need prayer, visit us at wwwshepherdsvillagecom. Backslash prayer. For more information and resources, check out our show notes.
